Good Evening, Gang!
Need your help here, because I'm feeling very old, very dumb, or perhaps a combination of the two.
Last November, at an Annual Business Coaching Conference with our Coach, Patti Kouri, of Woodland Hills CA, her and her speakers espoused the great value of Social Networking. "Rewards, contacts, and new friends beyond belief," several said.
Nearly five months later, however, I fail to see the benefit!
I joined Facebook, and LinkedIn. I got involved with a bunch of groups on each. I've traded emails, Drinks, Beers, Fun Wall Greetings, Hugs, Kisses, and . . . my wife still doesn't know what this really means . . . Pokes! But business value - practically nada, aside from keeping in touch with a lot of my buds in a novel way.
As a small business person, as we all are, I want to use my time most effectively. I will invest the time if it means eventual - not necessarily immediate - payout. AR Blogging pays out. Our Team Blog - BlogChicagoHomes.com - pays out. Prospecting, old-fashioned networking, great service to our clients and prospective clients - pays out.
But Social Networking - not yet! (Although, I am still getting Beers, Margaritas, Hugs, and a few Pokes on a daily basis).
Any clues here for this ole' Boomer (50 IS the new 30, you know). Perhaps I just don't get it.
Please, guys - enlighten me! Or, at least, point me in the right direction.
Just Frustrated in Chicago,
DEAN & DEAN'S TEAM CHICAGO

Dean, I joined facebook when it all began. Back when I was a sophmore in college in 2005 I think it was. Well 3 years later and im out of school. I still facebook and what not. I have over 450 friends on facebook. Long story short... I've been trying to advertise via groups, mass messeges, etc. It doesn't seem to be very effecive yet. But not all of my age group is ready to buy yet. I'd imagine it'd be hard from the get go to build relationships with people on there and then try to help them buy or sell a property. Just my .02
You have a valid question here. I think if any of it works like AR then it's probably good. I mean the search engine stuff and plain old great resource situation, not to mention great enjoyment. It actually does generate business.
I just joined twitter. I was thinking if it helped people find me via google and I had fun, it would be worth it.
Much of this communication via web is still in early stages I think, but the future will probably be closer to what it means to e-mail or talk on the phone. I know for my 16 year old, texting and internet are her main vehicles of communication.
Hi Dean.
I got on board with facebook here in Santa Barbara. We have 2 major colleges here...UCSB and City of Santa Barbara...I have only seen college kids in this area on this site...The messages are pretty awful and border on porn. I also checked out the Silicon Valley area for Facebook. They have lots of engineers and other professionals there...I wonder whether the area dictates the "quality of business leads" you'll get, if any.
You may want to post professional, informational blogs for your "buds." You may be able to get them to see you as a bud and a real estate professional!
Good Luck...keep us posted!
Kim
I joined Facebook, LinkedIn, and a fw other places that I have forgotten...and while it's fun it's very time consuming.
I get more bang for my time by blogging, period. If someone is looking for me, they can find me. I just don't have the time, inclination, or ability to get all caught up in all those things.
I tried building a lens on Squidoo - a local information lens. It was fun, I got one comment from a girl who goes to my church. LOL. I've got all I can handle with my life, with Active Rain, and my outside blog.
POKES??? - are these the Lonesome Dove variety?
seems like I join one of those groups and the next thing I know is Ivanna Humphue sends me a message saying she wants to be my friend.
I have joined LinkedIn, ActiveRain and Xing. I have not bothered to join Facebook or MySpace because of time limitations. I wanted to focus my efforts on networking sites that are specifically professional. I don't think the truly social networking sites are professionally valuable.
ActiveRain is by far the most effective, followed by LinkedIn for me.
Myspace has been a great networking tool for me. Of course Michael & I are in the younger generation, but I have received several leads since launching our real estate page. I add people in my area that are like me and share the same interests, and when they are ready to buy the come to someone who they are comfortable with. Personally I don't get the whole facebook thing, I could care less about it.
Shelley Kefauver - Century 21 Heritage York, PA
Hi Dean,
You need to spend more effort communicating about realestate on Facebook. For example, when you update your status do you say things like, "Dean is showing a house", or "Dean is researching the housing market"
In your post to facebook to you put your listings? Facebook is about networking, sharing interest and connecting. For some that means, passing beers, dating, for others it, playing chess, and and sharing photos.
For you it's about Real Estate, the house market, and some personal details. You can still do the fun stuff, but make a real effort to talk about your business and listings. Use Facebook to educate.
Hey Dean,
I have a facebook and a myspace page; I've picked up a couple of leads through each, but nothing has panned out. I find its just another means of communication, albiet very informal. Its fun to chit chat and I've connected with some great KW agents on there, but it doesn't hold my interest like active rain has. Its just like you said, its great socializing, not conducting business.
Dean, I would say that you can get business from these social networks, but it depends on how you use them. I have been a bit neglectful of my MySpace site as of late (it's on the list),but I found it very effective in pushing traffic towards particular posts I wanted people to see. You need to invest the time in any social network in order for it to pay off. Most people who benefit from A/R are Active in the rain. Those who are not would find it to be a fruitless venue for business, much like you find your other social networks.
Sounds like you are active, but did you plan a business strategy. If you use the social networks for business, you need to set a goal and then put a strategy in place for how you want to achieve it. FaceBook and MySpace might not be your best vehicles, but you won't know without a goal and a plan in place.
Great discussion you have spawned here! I think the social networking is very much like geographical farming.....you plant seeds now and the harvest comes later. I commend you for jumping in and trusting Coach Patti (who is a very smart lady and is co-creator of www.TheRealEstateGame.com ) I teach GRI technology classes and invariably, there is a Gen Y Realtor who is getting REGULAR leads from MySpace and Facebook. It works and differentiating yourself will bring business, HOWEVER, are the Facebook and the other communities you have joined where your perfect clients are??? That is part of using the strtaegy!
Hello Dean,
Does "social networking" PAY? Great question, and if so how do I tap into it as a Realtor?
Currently, there is a "shift" taking place in the Alberta Real Estate marketplace related to how local Realtors conduct their marketing. In part, because my firm is encouraging this shift and in part because individual people are taking some initiative on their own, usually however, without a cohesive strategy or without clear objectives. It's one thing to say "you have to have a strategy", it's another point entirely to know precisely what tactics that strategy is supposed to consist of so that you drive desired results. Most of the time it's trial and error which can be very time and resource consuming...
We're educating Realtors, many who are novice Internet/social networkers as to how to get on "Facebook" and how to properly become involved in social networking (SN), with the right fundamentals going in.
For the more savvy folks like yourself and the many people who have commented here for example, we are showing them how to "in specific Real Estate terms" leverage the systems, tools, strategies and tactics within each SN site to drive targeted "buyer" or "seller" results.
This is a coordinated branding, marketing 2.0 style approach that we're demonstrating and sharing with leaders in your industry in our home province of Alberta so far.
Overall this is a great discussion and one that spans many industries and business types. Coincidently my firm fusedlogic is about to hold a seminar on this very topic in Edmonton, Alberta on April 8th. The seminar is directed at two groups Alberta Realtors and Alberta small business owners. Now we could probably be convinced to hop a plane and talk with folks in the Chicago area IF there was enough interest.
Dean, we propose one half day of study and work to understand and you'll then be equipped with and have your clearly laid out plan. Which from that day forward, all that time you're currently spending networking socially online (that your wife seems is weird) will start to put "Benjamins" in your pockets by growing your client portfolio with "targeted" people rather than just a generic lead or two...
If you'd like you can take a look at my blog to watch some short videos on the subject.
www.fusedlogic.blogspot.com
And please feel free to leave me with your opinion by commenting.
Great question and discussion Dean, highly relevant to today's Realtor and small business owner.
Wow, some really good information, Dean let me know which one you think is better.
Craig C
Preforeclosure, loss mitigation consultant
I think all of it are trying to figure out what it all means and afraid of missing out on something or not keeping up.
Here's my personal ranking of the sites that I use, not necessarily for making money but in overall value.
1) YouTube-great for music(worldwide), humor, technology. I can find old Borg vs McEnroe clips, popular Japanese music, Cat Stevens videos, people showing you how to play Cat Stevens on guitar, it's awesome, where else would you find this stuff.
2)Linkedin-It's a professional networking website and great for finding people that you have lost touch with.
3)Activerain-This may eventually become #1 based on other peoples experiences.
4)Facebook-I tried to really keep up with it for a while, but I frankly find a lot of it pretty tedious.
5)Myspace-I have an account with a picture set up, but I spend almost no time on it.
I have used both facebook and LinkedIn and have found old friends and classmates from both highschool and college. I have gotten one deal out of finding an old friend that didn't know I sold real estate.
daniel
Dean
I'm also in a college town and I'm on facebook. Haven't done much with it professionally but in the long run I think it has potential. I think it is more about making connections with people and having them see you as a resouce and person to rely on when it comes time for them to buy or sell a house.
Hello Dean,
I fill like you, allthough I register on as many sites as I can, the only one that is beneficial professionaly and as another human being is Active Rain, it did so much for me asa learning carve that you really can not mesure
We talked about this at the RETS today. In fact, Bob Stewart sat on a panel discussing this. I think one thing is that we can't keep up with every social networking site... pick a couple and work them. And hard sells don't work.
BTW, the average age on MySpace is around 35... Rumors are that Facebook might be a little older.
Actually, and I may be wrong since I am a little older than you - the point of those blog type things is to be able to incorporate your "signature line" which should include your name and web site url. Having your url listed at these types of blogs actually allows Google to find them and that will increase your search engine ranking and put you higher on the list.
Does that sound clear to you? If not, email me and I will see if I can't re-explain it to you!
Keep enjoying those Margaritas!
Robin
http://www.RobinMichell.com
Hi Dean, Great honest post. I feel like you. A little curious as to the value beyond just socializing. Since I only have so much time in a day. I would much rather invest my time on AR if I am going to do any kind of blogging or networking. I think there is much more value here. Only my humble and baby boomer era opinion.
Hi Dean,
My daughter, Haley is a Realtor with my company. She is also a full time student at Auburn University. She is very active on Facebook and has gotten several leads from fellow students looking for housing. She advertises her properties on facebook also.
I think it's another great tool that's free for her to use to prospect for business.
Hi Dean:
I can sympathize with you. I am also confused. With so many events happening; bail outs, subprime mortgages, short sales, foreclosures, financial institutions going down the drain. I thought 31 years of experience would give me a hedge. I thought I knew exactly what was happening but I have tons of doubts. Instead of joining I am cancelling. Last month I cancelled 4 sites I used to belong to. But big surprise, I was kind of relieved. The CEO of City Group does not know what the hell is happening either, so I am in good company. AR is a great learning tool. You got fabulous bloggers. The other sites are for very young people that like to chat and text.
Isaac Bensussen www.besthomesinlajolla.com
How come the people who believe in these sites say they get "Leads" from these sites, but they NEVER mention a sale? Lots of people get back in touch with old high school friends though! Wasn't the question, are they good for your business? What a waste of time and effort!
I have found more REALTORS are on Myspace and facebook then i see on AR (in my area atleast).
I have found friends on myspace, invitedthem here and they dont even join....huh???
i am speechless when this happens
Hey Dean - I see you already have a Team blog, one thing you can do is "share" your posts on Facebook. Zap them to your profile, or to your free Facebook business (agency) page. Set up an Open House calendar. Ask your sphere of influence to become "Fans" of your page. Or subtley market yourself by joining groups that interest you anyway.
I'll admit I don't use Facebook too much, and don't have a lot friends on the site, but it is another platform to syndicate my existing content, and if someone "discovers" me through Facebook and wants to hire me, great! If not, minimal time investment.
Ok Dean,
I know just about as little now as I did when I first started reading. Have to ask my partner and 24 year old son how much success he has. He talks to his friends all over the place on FB.
List and Sell (keep asking the good questions too) Gary @ RentonHomeFinder
Hello!
I wanted to share a resource with you
Chris Brogan blogs about social networking. You might find his advice interesting.
For example today his post is about realtors using video to sell homes:
http://www.chrisbrogan.com/social-media-starter-moves-for-real-estate/
Just as a side note, I found my way here via Linked In.
Thanks for letting me share.
Lara Nieberding
The Data Digger
I have a facebook account. I set up an account for business purposes but then family members found out about it. My nieces and nephews think Uncle Bill is cool because he has a facebook account.
I have yet to get any business from it. I will keep it up in case. The price is right. I don't participate in the vampire biting, or the comparisons or any of the other silly games they do on facebook.
I joined linkedin. I think there is more possibilities for business there than on facebook.
Yep, I too agree! I'm 31 and subscribe to all the sites. I'm big into MySpace, active in Facebook, and also use AR, LinkedIn, Twitter, Plaxo, etc. I don't see automatic results, but I do get to keep my brand top-of-mind for the people I interact with - hopefully they'll think of me, refer to me, etc. The best thing about the sites in my opinion is that you can link them back to your personal website which helps with raking and placement. See, I'm linking back to mine right here:
http://www.NestingInNashville.com
:-)
Stephanie Crawford, Agent in Nashville, TN